Gastonia Times

As the new year begins, individuals often find themselves tempted to envision an idealized version of themselves. This tendency can lead to ambitious plans that may not be sustainable. One approach to counter this is by setting smaller, more manageable goals each day. Simple actions like adding an extra prayer or including one more vegetable at dinner can help in seeking improvement.

The monks of Belmont Abbey offer guidance through their practice of stability and stewardship. Stability encourages embracing one's current circumstances and recognizing where one stands, while stewardship involves taking responsibility for nurturing the gifts present in life. These concepts provide a framework for approaching resolutions with a focus on being true to oneself rather than aspiring to become someone else.

Father James Raber, the chaplain at Belmont Abbey, reminds individuals that "we are God’s gift to ourselves" and others. With this perspective, new year's goals should be viewed through a lens of clarity, humility, and love. Instead of transforming into an idealized self-image, it is about embracing life's gifts with trust and allowing Christ's guidance in one's journey.

This reflective approach emphasizes being fully present as the person one is meant to be, acknowledging that desires and aspirations are part of God's communication but should not overshadow the inherent value already present within oneself.